Hold yourselves to account before you are held to account, and weigh yourselves before you are weighed.
Umar ibn al-Khattab
Umar ibn al-Khattab

“Hold yourselves to account before you are held to account, and weigh yourselves before you are weighed.”

The explanation

What does Umar ibn al-Khattab mean?

Ahmad ibn Hanbal and Ibn al-Mubarak both record this in their books on renunciation, and in Ibn al-Mubarak’s version it goes on: “for that is easier on your reckoning … and get ready for the Great Display,” the Day nothing about you will be hidden (69:18). Ibn al-Mubarak’s chain is openly hearsay — “it reached me that ‘Umar said” — and al-Tirmidhi cites it with “it is reported from ‘Umar,” beside the hadith that the wise one is he who calls himself to account and works for what comes after death.

Written from Written from Al-Mukhtasar fi at-Tafsir and Tafsir Ibn Kathir.

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